dinner cockroach

Was having dinner with daniel and nath and after find a place sit down play poker until a cockroach scare the hell outta me just above this place we were sitting!!! Walao i so big size scared of a little cockroach sia.... pai seh lo....

The one eyed mother *warning- Very Touching*

SHARING WITH YOU A TOUCHING STORY......................

my mom only had one eye. I hated her.... She was such an embarrassment.
She cooked for students & teachers to support the family.

There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to
Say hello to me.

I was so embarrassed.

How could she do this to me?
I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out.
The next day at school one of my classmates said, 'EEEE, your mom only
Has one eye!'

I wanted to bury myself.
I also wanted my mom to just disappear.
I confronted her that day and said, ' If you're only gonna make me a
Laughing stock, why don't you just die?'

My mom did not respond...
I didn't even stop to think for a second about what I had said, because
I was full of anger.
I was oblivious to her feelings.

I wanted out of that house, and have nothing to do with her.
So I studied real hard , got a chance to go abroad to study.
Then, I got married.
I bought a house of my own.
I had kids of my own.
I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts, Then one day, my
Mother came to visit me.
She hadn't seen me in years and she didn't even meet her
Grandchildren.

When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her, and I yelled at
Her for coming over uninvited.
I screamed at her, 'How dare you come to my house and scare my
Children!'
GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!'

And to this, my mother quietly answered, 'Oh, I'm so sorry. I may have
Gotten the wrong address,'
And she disappeared out of sight.
One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house.

So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip.
After the reunion, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity.


My neighbors said that she died.
I did not shed a single tear.
They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have.
'My dearest son,
I think of you all the time. I'm sorry that I came to your house and
Scared your children.
I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion.
But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you.
I'm sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you when you were
Growing up.

You see........when you were very little, you got into an accident, and
Lost your eye.
As a mother, I couldn't stand watching you
Having to grow up with one eye.
So I gave you mine.
I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me, in my
Place, with that eye.

With all my love to you,
Your mother.

Always tell someone that you love them because you never know what day
Will be their last, or your own.

Always seek to resolve your problems or disagreements with loved ones
Because if either of you should pass on before, the one who is left alive will have the rest of their life to ponder those unresolved feelings but will never find closure... And closure usually brings
Peace...

'Face your past without regret. Handle you present with
confidence.
And prepare your future without fear'.

English is a difficult language........for some...

Oh dear.... This is how misunderstanding happens!! LOL~~


Beware of the new war since u alr seen this, America and Japan !!!!

七个对不起,换来女孩跳楼，男孩疯了。

男孩和女孩从小就认识，男孩经常约女孩一起去村外的池塘边捉小虾，每次男孩总是满载而归，女孩却是两手空空，女孩总是失落的含着眼泪，独自一个人回到家，然后闷闷不乐。晚饭前，男孩敲响女孩家的门，女孩一见是男孩，扭头就走，男孩追上前，对女孩说：“对不起，我把你的虾都捉走了，给，我把它们养在小鱼缸里，送给你。”女孩眉头一放，慧心的笑了，就这样反复着他们纯纯的童年，转眼，他们各自成长着。
——纯纯的“对不起”。


男孩总是喜欢戏弄女孩，经常会把女孩逗到哭，然后又去哄女孩到她笑为止，直到长大后，也是如此。
男孩经常偷偷的把女孩的自行车轮胎的气放到没有，然后躲在远处，看女孩着急的走投无路，等着女孩拨通他的手机，然后破口大骂他的小贼行为。可男孩，依旧那么 喜欢这样的女孩。他窃窃的从远处走来，灰溜溜的为女孩推着那辆没了气的自行车，任由女孩在一旁发牢骚，男孩却暗自窃喜，然后委屈的对女孩说：“对不起，我知道错了。”随即，女孩便会柔弱下来，告诉男孩下次不允许那样，男孩点头，于是，那时的他们每天都充满着笑容。

——“对不起”的快乐。



大学毕业后，男孩和女孩各自有了工作，男孩的工作总是很忙，有时一个月都休息不到一次，而女孩总是抱怨男孩冷落了她，终于，他们有了第一次的吵架。女孩委屈的哭起来，可男孩却很理直气壮的告诉女孩：“这是为了我的工作。”这场冷战持续了很久。终于，女孩还是忍不住，主动和男孩和好了。后来很多次男孩和女孩都因为这样的小事而吵得不可开交，可每次，都是女孩先妥协。
那年，女孩生日，男孩答应女孩要给他过一个浪漫的生日，女孩欣喜不已，她在家精心打扮，等着男孩回来陪她渡过这个美妙的生日，这一等就是凌晨，女孩在睡梦中醒来，脸上挂着泪痕，男孩见到女孩，心疼的为女孩擦去脸庞的泪痕：“对不起，嫁给我好吗？”于是男孩拿出一枚戒指。

——“对不起”也是一种承诺。



婚后，男孩的事业大有成就，经常有许多应酬，而女孩已经成为一个专职太太了，每天在家为男孩准备热菜热饭，把家里收拾的干干净净，她经常会去菜场买回一些小河虾放在鱼缸里养着，男孩总问他为什么，女孩却总是慧心的一笑。
慢 慢的，男孩每次回家，身上总是充满了不同的香水味道，而每次没等女孩问，男孩总是忙着解释说应酬太多。女孩黯然，那时起，女孩不太爱说话了，也不像以前那 么开朗了，她总是喜欢成天的呆在家里，抱着枕头看韩剧，然后随着剧情哭泣，夜深时，就会疯狂的大哭。以后的日子里，男孩回来时，身上的香水味只有一种味道 了，女孩从来不问，可是男孩依旧说：“对不起，今天又去应酬了。”

——“对不起”，谎言的开始。


渐 渐的，男孩开始不回家，或总是在外出差，男孩的事业越来越好，身边都是奉承的人，他每天都在别人的恭维下自豪的笑着，而女孩，几乎不出门了，她总会去超市 买上很多方便面，和一些必要的日用品，然后把自己关在家里，这一呆就是很久。从前，女孩会经常和男孩一起聊聊天，而现在，她孤身一人，身边没有一个可以说 话的人，每次打电话问男孩什么时候回家，男孩总是仓促的回答到：“对不起，我太忙了。”女孩，失落的扣上电话，那以后她再也没有问男孩什么时候会回家。

——“对不起”，只是个敷衍的方式。



女孩学着电视上的样子，开始打扮自己，她觉得男孩不回家，也许是看腻了她，她决定不再颓废，自己的幸福应该靠自己争取，而不是无谓的后退。
那天，女孩心血来潮，按照地址去了男孩工作的地方，那是女孩第一次去，也是唯一的一次。女孩涩涩的按下电梯，来到这个男孩经常说忙的地方，她细细的观察这个公司的每个角落，这里的一切，她都觉得很好看。终于，绕过长长的办公走廊，她来到男孩的办公室，轻轻的推开门……女孩愣住了，眼前看到的不是自己的丈夫，也不是那个经常弄坏她自行车的那个贼小子，更不是那个把虾放在小鱼缸里的男孩，而是一个正在和别的女人做爱的男人。那个女人坐在桌子上，******的发出微弱的呻吟声，那个男人，仿佛山林里饿极了的野兽……
许久，男孩才发现了女孩，男孩惊慌失措，忙把衣裤捡起来穿好。可女孩，转身离开了。男孩飞奔出去，追着女孩，那晚，大雨袭击了整个城市。女孩不顾男孩的叫喊，径直往前跑，往回家的方向跑，男孩在女孩后面大喊：“对不起，我还是爱你的，对不起，我真的只爱你。”可女孩，始终没有听见。

——这样的“对不起”太伤人。


男孩一直都没有找到女孩，女孩失踪很久了。男孩的世界已经一片黑暗，无心工作，无心花天酒地，他想不到女孩可以去哪里，因为女孩没有朋友，她唯一的朋友就是男孩，男孩终日守着电话机，手机24小时不关机，怕错过了女孩的电话。这一等就是半年多。
快递为男孩送来一个盒子。
男孩打开一看，里面是许多河虾的标本，有的在树叶边休息，有的在水草里躲着，各式各样的河虾标本，旁边放着一封信。

“ 我 始终没有勇气再见到你，可能是我太懦弱，也或许是我根本不想见到你，我想这些都不重要了。你现在应该过的没什么两样吧，我很好，我学会了离开你怎么让自己存活，我懂得了怎样赚钱养活自己，而不用每天等着你回家，为你烧一桌热腾腾的饭菜，直到凉了也不见你的人，我的手机已经不用了，因为我已经不会再为 你24小时的不关机，让自己饱受辐射的折磨。我懂得怎样去爱惜自己，珍惜自己的本来应该美好的生活。我想，我是可以忘记怎么去爱你的，因为你把我的爱弄得遍地麟伤。
离婚协议书，就压在鱼缸的底下，你签完字，按照地址给我寄过来就行了。
对不起，我想我是真的累了。”

男孩按照地址找去，他满心希望能够见到女孩，然后让女孩原谅，并且告诉女孩自己不能没有她，可是打开门的却是女孩的父亲，而女孩就站在她父亲的身后——是女孩的遗像。
女孩的父亲告诉男孩，女孩在写完这封信后，跳楼自杀了，血肉一片模糊。

——原来“对不起”也可以是种结束。

那一年，男孩疯了。

每个人在自己的生命里头，一定会遇到一个自己真正该珍惜的人。请你好好的珍惜那一个人，不是每一句的对不起，都可以换来每一句的没关系……千万不要辜负了自己心爱的人，那对谁，都不好……把这个故事传下去，让你的朋友们知道，不要随意地说出对不起……

Tanjong Pagar

what we both doing?

Outing with Nath....

<<笑>> 男人对女人说的话， 理解解说

Not quite true but still..... Funny~~
What guys think when woman say something


说谎，可能是人的天性。女人经常说男人喜欢说谎，其实女人也是一样的。

　　第一句：“我看上你可不是因为你的钱（或者是你的地位）！

　　仔细想一想，女人又不是白痴，什么都没有，只有爱情能当面包去吃饭啊？即使你现在没有，那么她的眼光也能看见你的以后，如果你很有能力，她肯定把你当作可升值性股票把你攥在手里。

　　第二句：“你以为我想去啊，是xx非拉我去的。”

　　谁拉谁去的啊？自己想去就去呗，我又不是不让你去。

　　第三句：“你做饭做的真好吃。”

　　哈哈哈哈！她这么说的时候千万别只顾着高兴，她的意思是：既然你做饭这么好吃，以后就你做好了……

　　第四句：“给我讲讲你和你以前的她的故事，我不会生气的。”

　　谁信谁完蛋！女人不吃醋谁相信啊？哪怕那是过去了500年的事情，等你说完了，她们就完全露出丑恶的嘴脸，要么哭啊闹啊，要么就让你干这干那，还美其名曰“劳动改造”！

　　第五句：“她们都说xx牌子的衣服很适合我。”

　　没什么好说的，掏钱包吧！

　　第六句：“没关系，我感觉你还不胖。”

　　如果她真这么说了，只是不想让你难堪，注意一下自己的身材吧。

　　第七句：“老夫老妻了，我不要什么情人节礼物了。”

　　天啊，如果这话你相信了，肯定和我一样，打扫一个月的卫生！女人么，说归说，如果你真不买，她恨死你！而且明年她铁定列张购物清单让你挨个买！！

　　第八句：“其实，我感觉你应该有自己的‘红颜知己’。”

　　切～～女人真有这么大方吗？她永远希望你离所有的女人远远的（除了她自己）。这样她才有安全感，如果你真有个女同学，女同事给你个电话，或者短信息什么的，她比谁都关心，耳朵还特好使！你晚上想和兄弟出去聚会的时候，她指不定就在你屁股后面跟着呢！

　　第九句：“不要了么，房事对身体不好。”

　　……自己品味吧！

　　第十句：“没有钱我一样养着你！”

　　天啊，我还没有辞职呢，为了以后的生活，去考it认证，需要点钱，我的工资和奖金一发下来就上缴，现在给点好么，“记清楚啊，现在可是我在养着你！”好好努力吧，兄弟们，男人是一家之主，挣钱就是你的责任！

　　第十一句：我们还是当朋友好了（其实你还有可以利用的价值）

　　第十二句：我想我真的不适合你（我根本就不喜欢你！）

　　第十三句：其实你人真的很好（可是我不想和你在一起）

　　第十四句：你人真的很好（我是真的不想和你在一起）

　　第十五句：你人真的真的很好……真的（猪头，离我远一点！）

　　第十六句：我暂时不想交男朋友（闪边啦！你还不到我心中帅哥标准的一半）

　　第十七句：我不想伤害我们之间的友谊（我们之间也只会有友谊）

　　第十八句：我心中牵挂着一个人（那个人是我专门为你这种人虚构的）

　　第十九句：我从来没想过这个问题（这是根本不可能的.还用想吗？）

　　第二十句：我不适合当个情人（废话，没人会适合当你的情人的）

　　第二十一句：你给我一段时间考虑（不给我时间，我怎么溜啊）

　　第二十二句：你的条件真的很好（可是还没好到我想要的地步）

　　第二十三句：可是这样的感觉好怪（你这丑八怪，怪到这样还想吃天鹅肉？）

　　第二十四句：你的温柔我会铭记在心的（拜托，情圣！光温柔是没用的，还要有钱！）

　　第二十五句：其实我一直没勇气接受你（看到你差点吓死……哪还有勇气？）

　　第二十六句：你真的很可爱（你真的很幼稚）

　　第二十七句：你真的是超级可爱啦（猪头！不要象小孩那样缠着我！）

　　第二十八句：遇到你，总会让我重温童年的快乐（就象阿姨遇到小弟弟那样）

　　第二十九句：我们应该给彼此一点缓冲时间（给你时间快滚！再不走我要翻脸啦！）

　　第三十句：别人都说你条件不错啊（可我从来没这样认为！）

　　第三十一句：如果我们早点认识就好了（可以让你早点觉悟！）

　　第三十二句：别急嘛，我们可以先做朋友（趁这个时候我要找到我的白马王子啊.呵呵

Final theory

Today i passed my Final theory! Hip hip hooray~~~ After the 4th time registering finally i passed it! Hahaha....

I missed my 1st FT due to overslept. 2nd time was because i went down on a wrong date 1 day later than the exact date! Goondoo me lo Tsk.... 3rd time Failed. So this 4th time i swear i'm gonna get it!

I registered the actual test together with another trial test before the exact FT starts. But unfortunately, i failed to attend it due to traffic congestion cause by the rain.... haiz~ i was making a fuss calling my friends to complain how i'm going to fail my FT again this time w/o studying at all, and no trial test blah blah blah........... I usually attend the session for like 15mins time, but this time i review it once again and again not because i wanted to ensure, but i dun dare to click on the end session button!! Wahaha... But when it turns out to be 'PASSED', my heart pumped like i'm gonna heart-attack any moment.. that kinda excitement is so killing me hee~ Never crossed my mind that i'm gonna passed this time!! Can you feel that? osssh baby~~~^_^

Went to a drinking session with Dear Mr Terence at club nana, ended up dun feel drinking enough so went down to BQ for a 2nd round...... but my friend already tipsy by the time so :(

Passed by amber 21 just now so dropped in and say hi to my ex-colleagues like raine, jinping and peiling..... Miss them quite alot! Hee hee quite shiok actually when they saw me and hug me telling me i slim down so so much..... Can't help but feel very happy!! Din take foto 2day so put up another 1 tat's taken last week and i just recieve it...

Well....Knowing that i dare not, my friend indicates me to wear this out for that day, its been such a long time before i dare to wear sleeveless tops! Anyway, took down a few pics for memorization. Haha... Although i'm still plump but i hope the next time i take pics i can see significant changes after putting in so much hard work and effort trying to slim down!! Wish me all the best ba.....^_^

Animals' Rights......

After work, as i was taking dinner with my colleague today. We met this interesting indian guy Nicholas John, who shares his point of views toward religions and believes. Slowly it became a discussion of how human-being reacts and misunderstand what the so called 'GOD(in every religions)' is trying to say in their 'bibles'! For those who knows me well enough, they know i'm animals lover and without fail will get into this topic..hee...

No offense! Frankly i dislike most Christians, as words that comes out from their mouth are ironically illogical and at the same time criticizes their own 'god' too... Examples of incidents that i came across(and can't bear with) includes Christians going around telling people that only their god is god. All others e.g. Catholic, Halal, Buddist, etc..... are fake & accusing Catholics for praying to a normal human who just so happen to give birth to Jesus Christ!(Though not a catholic here, but i already feel the rudeness in the attitude and the sentence itself too) and many more ridiculously!!! They knocked on my door claiming they want to show me a path to eternity near god... haha.......!!

I seriously find no sense in listening to another single alphabet they are gonna say and just slammed the door in his face. Where the hell can a person who show no respect to others' believes especially to even the mother of the 'god' that they themself worshipped to??? LOL

Animal Rights and Vegetarian Ethics

Some nice fellows post on the net trying to explain and show proven examples/experiments that what they understand from the bible is not what they thought they understand! But look at all these silly questions that they post to rebel back!! Pissed me off...If there are really 'god' , than let me practice those christians' way for this time! I pray that they not to stay in the hell to suffer afterlife but to reincarnate as animals they once look down on and let them realise their mistakes by heart.... :

*click on questions to see more*

What about how other animals kill and eat each other?

Human beings are a part of the food chain, and eating meat is natural. So then, how can it be wrong?

What do you think about the phrase "survival of the fittest"?

Should we try to prevent other animals from killing and eating each other?

How common is cannibalism in the animal kingdom?

Isn't hunting by humans necessary to prevent deer overpopulation?

Doesn't the Bible say that humans have dominion over the animals?

Doesn't the Bible specifically state that it is ok to kill animals for food?

Don't only human beings have a soul?

If God did not want us to eat meat, then why did he place animals on the Earth?

What about killing plants?

How do you know that plants can not feel pain?

What would you do if we hypothetically discovered that plants do indeed feel pain?

Don't plants move their leaves to follow the sun?

Aren't there some religions which believe that plants possess a soul?

How do you know that other animals can feel pain?

Where in the animal kingdom does consciousness begin?

Is it ok to kill animals which do not possess consciousness?

What about insects?

What do you do when a colony of insects infests your home?

Do you view the killing of an insect as the moral equivalent of killing a bird or mammal?

Don't insects only behave on an instinctual level?

Can't all insect behavior be predicted by a predetermined algorithm, no different than a computer program?

Would you rather save your child or your dog?

What are the alternatives to testing on animals?

Do animal rights supporters refrain from using life saving drugs which were developed through animal testing?

Aren't there laws regulating the use of animals in laboratories?

How is experimenting on animals any different from other situations where humans kill animals for survival?

What if the cure to cancer could be produced by a hypothetical experiment on just a single animal?

Isn't it insulting to compare human beings with animals?

Don't only humans have the ability to use language and understand abstract concepts?

Aren't only humans self aware?

What evidence is there that other animals can make moral decisions?

Don't only humans have the ability to pass on cultural information from one generation to the next?

Don't only humans understand the concept of death?

Don't only humans have the ability to enter social contracts?

Don't only humans have the ability to use tools?

Don't humans have bigger brains than all other animals?

How can animals have rights?

What is meant by the term rights?

Where do rights come from?

Why should we behave better towards animals than they do towards each other?

Why do we have a moral obligation to animals who do not understand moral concepts?

What do we gain by respecting the rights of other animals if they do not respect our rights?

What if humans treat and slaughter the animals humanely?

What about eating road kill?

Aren't animals also killed during the harvesting of crops and the construction of roads?

What about situations where humans need to eat meat to survive?

If we didn't raise animals for food, then they would never have had the chance to be born and experience life at all.

Why is eating meat wrong?

Meat tastes too good to become a vegetarian.

When we eat meat, we are not breaking any laws.

If everyone becomes a vegetarian, then what will we do with all the farm animals?

Aren't the animals already dead when we purchase meat in a grocery store?

If everyone becomes a vegetarian, won't this create economic hardship for those who depend on animal agriculture?

Don't the majority of people think there is nothing morally wrong with eating meat?

Isn't eating meat a part of our cultural heritage?

Haven't humans eaten meat ever since they walked the Earth?

If you want to be vegetarian, that's fine. But, don't tell me what to do.

Do you want to make eating meat illegal?

Shouldn't we focus on solving human problems before worrying about animals?

How can some animal rights activists believe that other animals are our equals?

Isn't it wrong for vegetarians to act as if they are better than others and try to convert people?

What do animal rights activists think about abortion?

Doesn't duty to our own kind come first?

laksa steamboat for supper~~~!

Today was a day full of surprises! Went supper with my friend who brought his friend who is my long lost friend! wahaha.... complicated? When we were out to meet another group of friends, 1 of the gals is my friend too... Isn't it full of surprises?!! ^_^

Time Understands Love...

Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all the others......, including Love. One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island until the last possible moment. When the island was almost totally under, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help. Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?" Richness answered, "I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you." Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel. Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please." I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat." Next, Love saw Sadness passing by. Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you." Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now." Then, Love saw Happiness. Love cried out, "Happiness, please take me with you." But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him. Love began to cry. Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder. Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?" "It was Time", Knowledge answered. "But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked. Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."

There was a more complete version other than this one, with all the beautiful, colorful and plenty of shapes' fireworks!!! Thanks to chester for sms-ing me at the very right moment so that i lost the entire video before i could save it -_-"

Feel like crying and shouting all vulgarities at that moment lo pek chek! haiz but nvm la, already gone~~

My sister reserved a room in Hotel peninsular excelsor for a better view of the fireworks! At 21th floor!!
The scenery out of the window! WOW~



My dear mom posing on the bed sexily!
The room's view...

On the way there by bus... Mom and dad...

She didn't notice my funny face until shot is done!
Still not used to my black hair... haiz i really go dye black lol...

National Day!

I took a video of the fireworks and thanks to Chester, his message interrupts the process and the video's gone!! i really wanna cry and scream vulgarly during that moment! can only have this short and not very nice video at the very end haiz.....

The missing Rib!

A girl in love asked her boyfriend.

Girl: Tell me. Who do you love most in this world?

Boy: You, of course!

Girl: In your heart, what am I to you?

Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said, "You are my rib. It was said that God saw that Adam was lonely, during his sleep, God took one of Adam's rib and created Eve. Every man has been searching for his missing rib, only when you find the woman of your life, you'll no longer feel the lingering ache in your heart."

After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while.

However, the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems, their life became mundane.

All the challenges posed by the harsh realities of life began to gnaw away their dreams and love for each other. The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became more heated.

One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house. At the opposite side of the road, she shouted, "You don't love me!"

The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, retorted, "Maybe, it was a mistake for us to be together! You were never my missing rib!"!!!

Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while. He regretted what he said but words spoken are like thrown away water, you can never take it back. With tears, she went home to pack her things and was determined in breaking-up.

Before she left the house, "If I'm really not your missing rib, please let me go." She continued, "It is less painful this way. Let us go on our separate ways and search for our own partners."

Five years went by...

He never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life indirectly. She had left the country and back. She had married a foreigner and divorced. He felt anguished that she never waited for him.

In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering ache in his heart. He couldn't bring himself to admit that he was missing her.

One day, they finally met. At the airport, a place where there were many reunions and good byes. He was going away on a business trip. She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating them. She smiled at him gently.

Boy: How are you?

Girl: I'm fine. How about you? Have you found your missing rib?

Boy: No.

Girl: I'll be flying to New York in the next flight.

Boy: I'll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back. You know my number. Nothing has changed.

With a smile, she turned around and waved good bye.

Good bye...

One week later, he heard of her death. She had perished in New York, in the event that shocked the world.

Midnight, once again, he lit his cigarette. And like before, he felt the lingering ache in his heart. He finally knew. She was the missing rib that he had carelessly broken.

Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury. Most often than not, the outcome can be disastrous and detrimental. We vent our frustrations 99% at our loved ones. And even though we know we ought to "think twice and act wisely", its often easier said than done!

Things happen each day, Many of which are beyond our control. Let us treasure every moment and everyone in our life. Tomorrow may never come, give and accept what you have today!

叶子离开,是因为风的追求，还是树的不挽留

这个版本也很有意思!!! 千万不要等到失去后才学会珍惜, 否则一切就太迟了..
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叶子
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我生长在一棵树上，每天都过着无忧无虑的生活。直到有一天风的出现彻底的改变了我原有的平静生活，它告诉我外面原来还有更精彩更美丽的世 界。我开始向往外面的世界，我不想永远的生活在树的身上，它把根扎到很深的地底永远也不会离开这个地方，我不爱树，因为它把我困住，我不爱这样单调的生 活，我喜欢风，它喜欢到处流浪，从不为谁做半刻停留。它的随性和不羁深深的吸引着我，我幻想有一天可以和风一起去环游世界，到处流浪。随着时间的流转，我 对树的厌恶越来越深刻，对风的向往更加的与日俱增。树的木纳和风的浪漫在我心中形成的对比差距越来越大，每当风经过我的身边，在我耳边轻声细语都好象是在 为我歌唱，对我轻轻的说它有多么的爱我。我好想做风的新娘，永远的和它在一起。


风
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空气的流动形成了我，我歌唱，我到处的流 浪。这一天我又经过了这棵树的身边，树上茂密的叶子很好看，我喜欢这叶子，我每次经过它的身边都会对它说一些甜言蜜语来博取它的欢心。它好象很愿意听我说 话似的，当我吹到它的身上总会发出一些悦耳的声音回应我，我多想带它一起去流浪，一起去看看外面的花花世界，只是它长在这棵树上，树把它看的牢牢的，任凭 我怎么想要带它离开这里都无济于事。我只好等，等到有一天我的力量积满，我就一定要把叶子从树的身边夺走。　


树
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叶子好象越 来越讨厌我，尽管我每天尽力的多在地下多吸取一些营养给它，尽管每天太阳出来的时候我总是让它尽情的吸收太阳的光华，我虽然没有风的浪漫，但我有一个专为 它生存的身体，为了它我可以放弃我的生命，尽管我不会说甜言蜜语，但我会用我的实际行动来证明我有多爱它。我想，爱一个人是要让它幸福吧，看来叶子很向往 外面的世界，那就让风带走它吧，这样也许它会快乐，会幸福，只要它能够幸福快乐，我是什么都愿意做的。　


结局　
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　　这天， 树含着眼泪放飞了一直和它相依为命的叶子，眼睁睁的看着自己最爱的人就要离开自己的身边，树虽然不舍，但是为了叶子能有个灿烂的微笑，幸福的生活，它还是 撒开了紧紧握住叶子的手。这个时候风来了，它带走了叶子，叶子也开心的笑了，他们一前一后的唱着属于他们的歌，树已经好久没有看到叶子这样幸福的微笑了， 它流下了心酸的眼泪默默的看着叶子和风一起离开。突然事情惊变了，风遇到了一堵高墙，它无情的扔下了叶子自己走了，不论叶子怎样呼喊风，风连头也不回的走 了，剩下叶子一个人孤零零的在那里哭泣。树看在眼里急在心里，可是自己又动不了，它只能安慰无助的叶子，它用身体挡住阳光，只是怕叶子被阳光晒的没有了生 命，它每天都会给叶子讲一个不好笑的笑话来逗叶子开心，叶子看着高大的树，第一次感觉到树的好，它默默的看着树，它甚至想如果风没有来过，自己又早一点知 道树对自己有多么重要有多好，可是一切都已经来不及了，它开始慢慢的发黄了，离开了树的叶子没有树提供的营养很快就要支持不住了。树为了完成叶子的心愿， 开始拼命的长，让自己的根快点延伸，直到有一天树的根把那堵高墙给挤倒了。树流着泪说“风再来的时候你就可以完成你的心愿，去看看外面的花花世界了”叶子 用自己残余的最后一口气说“这已经不重要了，我终于明白了什么才是我生命重要的，原来最爱你的人永远都在你身边，默默的为你的快乐而快乐，为你的忧愁而伤 心，希望明年我还能做你的叶子，我要永远永远的和你在一起，希望满天的星星能为我们见证我们天长地久永垂不朽的爱情。好好的照顾自己，你是我一生中的最 爱，如果我只是你生命五线谱里一个小小音符的话，那么，我愿意为你奏响属于我氛围内最美的音乐，也愿意为你的人生添加一点属于你的绚丽色彩，而我唯一能做 的就是站在陆地，仰望天空，默默的祝福我生命中的天使……你能够幸福快乐就是我一生中最大的心愿　”叶子带着微笑的死去了，但是它没有遗憾，因为它知道今 生有个最爱它最关心它的树在一直为它守侯，守侯着它们永远不变的誓言。

Tree, Leave and wind - Leaf departure because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay?

a series of different point of view from a same story of a triangular love! Each sharing its own experience from varies perspective! If u need more love from someone... do love that someone more first...


Tree
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I have dated 5 gals when I was in Pre-U. There's one gal who I love a lot but never dare go after her. She doesn't have a pretty face, doesn't have a good figure, doesn't have outstanding charm. She is just a very ordinary gal.

I like her. I really like her. Like her innocent, like her frankness. Like her cuteness, like her intelligence and her fragility. Reason for not going after her is because I felt somebody so ordinary like her is not a good match for me. I'm also afraid that after we are together all the good feelings will vanish. I'm also afraid other's gossips will hurt her. I felt that if she's my gal, she will be mine ultimately & I don't have to give up everything just for her. The last reason, made her accompany me for 3 years. She watched me chase after gals, and I have made her heart cry for 3 years.

She wants to be a good actress and I'm a very demanding director. When I kissed my 2nd girlfriend, she bumped into us. She was embarrassed but smiled & said "Go on!" before running off. The next day, her eyes were swollen like a walnut. I didn't want to think about what causes her to cry but laughed at her the whole day. When everybody went back home, she was alone crying in the classroom. She didn't know that I returned from soccer training to get something. I have watched her cry for an hour or so.

My 4th girlfriend didn't like her. There was once when both of them quarreled. I know that based on her character she's not the type that will start off the quarrel. But I still sided with my girlfriend. I shouted at her and her eyes were filled with tears. I didn't care about her feelings and walked off with my girlfriend.

The next day, she still laughed & joked with me like nothing has ever happened. I know that she's very hurt but she didn't know that my heartache is as bad as hers.

When I broke up with my 5th girlfriend, I asked her out. After going out for a day, I told her that I have something to tell her. She told me that coincidentally, she has something to tell me too. I told her about my break up and she told me about her getting together. I know who the guy is. He has been going after her for quite a while. A very cute guy full of energy, lively and is interesting. His pursuit for her has been the talk of the school.

I can't show her my heartache but could only smile & congratulate her. When I reached home, the heartache was so strong that I couldn't stand it. It was like a heavy weighted stone on my chest. I couldn't breath. Wanted to shout but can't. Tears rolled down & I broke down & cry. How many times have I seen her cry for the man that doesn't acknowledge her presence too?

During graduation, I read a sms in my hp. It was send 10 days ago when I broke down and cry. I haven't read it since then. It says: "Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay?"



Leaf
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During Pre-U days, I liked to collect leaves. Why? Because I felt that for a leaf to leave the tree she has been relying on for so long it takes a lot of courage. During the 3 years of Pre-U I was on very close terms with a guy. Not BGR kind but as buddy kind. But when he had his 1st girlfriend, I learnt a feeling I never should have learnt - Jealousy. The sourness in the heart can't be described by using a lemon. It's like 100 rotten sour lemons. Sourness to the extreme limit. They were only together for 2 mths. When they broke up, I hid my strong sense of happiness. But after a mth, he got together with another gal.

I like him & I know he likes me. But why won't he pursue me? Since he loves me why he doesn't want to make the first move? Whenever he had a new girlfriend, my heart would hurt. Time after time, my heart bleed. I begin to suspect that this is a one sided love. If he doesn't like me, why does he treat me so well? It's beyond what you will normally do for a friend. Liking a person is very heart wrenching. I can know his likes, his habits. But his feelings towards me I can never figure out. You can't expect me a gal to ask him right?

Despite that, I still want to be by his side. Care for him, accompany him, love him. Hoping that one fine day, he will come & love me. It's like waiting for his phone call every night, wanting him to send me sms. I know that no matter how busy he is, he will make time for me. Because of this, I waited for him. The 3 years were the hardest to go through & I really want to give up. Sometimes, I wonder should I continue waiting. The pain and hurt, the dilemma accompanies me for 3 years.

Till the end of my 3rd year, a 2nd year junior begins to went after me. Everyday he pursuit me relentlessly. From outright rejection to a point in time when I felt that I'm willing to let him have a small footing in my heart. He's like a warm & gentle wind, trying to blow a leaf away from the tree. I know this wind will bring this badly battered leave far away & better land. Finally I left tree, but the tree only smiled & didn't ask me to stay.

Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay?



Wind
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Because I like a gal called leaf. Because she's so dependent on tree so I have to be a gust of wind. A wind that will blow her away from the tree. When I first met her, it was 1 mth after I transfer to the new school. I saw a petite person looking at my seniors & me playing soccer. During ECA time, she will always be sitting there. Be it alone or with her friends looking at him. When he talked with gals, there was a jealousy in her eyes. When he looked at her, there was a smile in her eyes. Looking at her became my habit. Just like she likes to look at him.

One day, she didn't appear. I felt something amissed. I can't explain the feeling except it's a kind of uneasiness. The senior was also not there as well. I went to their classroom, hid outside and saw my senior scolding her. Tears were in her eyes while he left. The next day, I saw her at her usual place, looking at him. I walked over and smiled to her. Took out a note & gave to her. She was surprised. She looked at me, smiled & accepted the note. The next day, she appeared & passed me a note and left.

Leaf's heart is too heavy and wind couldn't blow her away.

It's not that leaf heart is too heavy. It's because leaf never wants to leave tree.

I replied her note with this statement and slowly she started to talk to me & accepted my presents & phone calls. I know that the person she loves is not me. But I have this perseverance that one day I will make her like me. Within 4 mths, I have declared my love for her no less than 20 times. Every time, she will divert away from the topic. But I never give up. If I decide I want her to be mine, I will definitely use all means to win her over. I can't remember how many times I have declared my love to her. Although I know she will try to divert but I still bear a small ray of hope. Hoping that she will agree to be my girlfriend. I didn't hear any reply from her over the phone. I asked: "What are you doing? How come you didn't want to reply?" She said, "I'm nodding my head". "Ah?" I couldn't believe my ears. "I'm nodding my head". She replied loudly. I hang up the phone, quickly changed and took a taxi and rushed to her place & pressed her door bell. During the moment when she opened the door. I hugged her tightly.

Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay?

Moral

In love, we win very rarely, but when love is true, even if you lose, you still win just for having the tingle of loving someone more than you love yourself.
There comes a time when we stop loving someone, not because that person has stopped loving us but because we have found out that, they'd be happier if we let go....
Why do we close our eyes when we sleep? When we cry? When we imagine? When we kiss?

This is because THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THINGS IN THE WORLD ARE UNSEEN.

There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go isn't the end of the world. It's the beginning of a new life. Happiness lies for those who cry those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried. For only they can appreciate the importance of the people who have touched our lives.
A great love? It's when you shed tears and still you care for them, it's when they ignore you and still you long for them. It's when they begin to love another and yet you smile and say, "I'm happy for you." If love fails, set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly again. Remember you may find love and lose it, but when love dies, you never have to die with it.
The strongest people are not those who always win but those who stand back up when they fall. Somehow, along the course of life, you learn about yourself and realize that there should never be regrets, only a lifelong appreciation of the choices you've made.
Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, and not how you let go but how you hold on.
It's more dangerous to weep inwardly rather than outwardly. Outward tears can be wiped away while secret tears scar forever. ..
It's best to wait for the one you want than settle for one that's available. It's best to wait for the right one because life is too short to waste on just someone.


中文版本
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~~樹 ~~

會叫樹的原因，是因為我擅長畫水彩畫，最愛畫樹，久而久之，我的畫作右下方索性以一棵樹來代表我。 高中三年交過五個女朋友，有一個女孩子，我很愛她，卻遲遲不敢追，她沒有美麗的面孔，沒有姣好的身材，沒有撩人的魅力，一個再平凡不過的女孩子。

我 喜歡她，真的真的很喜歡她，喜歡她的單純，她的直率，她的可愛，她的智障，她的脆弱。 不追她的原因，也許是潛意識覺得平凡如她配不上我；也許是因為怕在一起後，一切的好感都會消失；也許是怕外人的指指點點傷害了她；也許是覺得，她會是我 的，不用急著為了她而放棄一切。最後這個原因，讓她陪了我三年，讓她看著我和別的女孩子廝混了三年，讓她心痛了三年。

她很想當一個好演 員，但我卻像一個嚴苛的導演。我和第二個女朋友在廁所接吻，被她撞見，她尷尬的笑笑說：「Go ~ on！」然後跑掉，第二天，她眼睛腫得像核桃一樣，我故意不去猜想是誰讓她哭成這樣，嘲笑了她一天，她在所有人都回家後，在教室哭了起來，她不知道練球回 來拿東西的我，看了她一個多小時。

我的第四個女朋友，一直很不喜歡她，有次她們兩個吵了起來，我知道依她的個性不會去惹事，但我還是護著女朋友，她被我吼了一下後，愣住，眼淚滑了下來，我無視她的眼淚，陪女友走出教室，第二天，她依舊嘻嘻哈哈的和我開玩笑，我知道她很難過，但她不會知道我的心不比她好受。

當我和第五個女朋友分手時，我約她出去玩，玩了一天我對她說："我有事要對妳說。""真巧，我也有事要對你說。
""我和她分手了。"
"我和他在一起了。"
我知道"他"是誰，他追她也有一陣子了，是個蠻可愛的男孩子，活潑有趣，充滿了熱情，追她追得滿城風雨。
我 不能表現自己的心痛，只能笑笑地恭喜她，但當我回到家，心中的痛楚強烈得令我無法承受，像有個千斤重的石頭壓在我胸口，我無法呼吸，想大叫卻叫不出來，眼 淚竟然滑了下來，我掩面大哭，多少次，我也看著她為了那個不願承認的人掩面大哭。 畢業典禮時，我在手機上發現了一封簡訊，這是十天前，我掩面大哭時傳來的，只是我一直沒有去開過機。
<葉子的離開，是因為風的追求，還是樹的不挽留>

~~葉子~~

高 中時，喜歡蒐集葉子，why？因為我覺得，一片葉子要離開它長期依賴的樹，好勇敢哩！ 高中三年，我和一個男孩子很好，不算男女朋友那種好，是好朋友那種好，但是，在他交第一個女朋友時，我學會了一種不該有的感覺，吃醋，心中的酸，不是一顆 檸檬可以比喻，那就像是100顆臭酸的檸檬，酸到不行，他們只在一起兩個月，當他們分手，我還得掩飾自己心中強烈的喜悅，但是一個月後，他和另一個女孩子 在一起。

我喜歡他，也知道他喜歡我，可是，他為什麼總是不追我呢？明明喜歡彼此，為什麼不行動？每當他交一個女朋友，我就心痛一次，一次又一次的打擊，讓我不禁懷疑，是我一廂情願嗎？不愛我，為什麼要對我那麼好？他對我的好，已經不是普通朋友可以做到。

喜歡一個人，好難過，我可以清楚的知道他的喜好，他的習慣，唯獨他對我的感覺，我猜不透，難道要我這個女孩子去開口嗎？儘管如此，我還是想在他身邊，關心他，陪他，愛他，也許算是一種等待的行為，等待他回來愛我，就像每天晚上等他的電話，等他的簡訊，我知道，就算他再忙，也會撥出一些時間給我。這樣的等 待，陪了我三年，等待是難熬的，是令人想放棄的，但等到的那一剎那，讓人第二天會繼續等下去。這樣的煎熬，這樣的痛苦，這樣的幸福，這樣的矛盾，陪了我三 年。

直到三年級下學期，高二一個學弟喜歡上我，每天的熱情追求，令我從一開始的拒絕，漸漸願意挪出我心房的一些位置給他。他像一陣溫柔而 持久的風，撩撥我這片搖搖欲墜的葉子，到最後，我發現我已經不想只留一點點的位置給這陣風，我知道這陣風，會帶我這片傷痕累累的葉子，到更幸福的地方。 於是我離開了樹，樹只是笑笑，沒有留。
<葉子的離開，是因為風的追求，還是樹的不挽留>

~~風 ~~

因 為我喜歡的女孩子叫葉子，因為她有一棵令她依戀的樹，所以我要當一陣風，一陣呵護她的風。 第一次看見她，是高二我轉來一個月後的事，個子小小的她坐在球場旁，一雙眼凝視著同和我在球場的學長，每天的社團時間，她總會坐在那裡，一個人，和朋友， 她的眼光依舊凝視著他，當他和女孩子打打鬧鬧，她的眼中有淚，當他看向她，她的眼中有笑。

看她成了我的習慣，就像她愛看他。有一天她沒 來，我心中沒來由的焦慮與不安，我無法解釋那種感覺，除了不安，還是不安，而且那學長竟然也不在。我衝去他們教室，躲在外面，看著學長罵她，她的眼淚，他 的離去。 第二天，她依舊坐在場邊，看著他，我走過去，對她笑一笑，拿了張紙條給她，她先是驚訝的看著我，然後笑笑地收下。 隔天，她拿著紙條出現在我面前，然後離開。
「葉子的心太沉重，風吹不動。」
「不是葉子的心太沉重，是葉子根本就不想離開樹。」
我回給她這段話後，她漸漸會和我說話，收我的禮物，接我的電話。

我 知道她喜歡的不是我，但我還是有毅力一定要讓她喜歡上我，四個月內我告白了不下20次，每一次她都轉移話題，但我還是不會放棄，我決定要的人，我就一定會 給它追過來！ 一直到不知道第幾次的告白，出了口，雖然知道她一定會又說到別的事，但還是有一絲絲希望她的答應，沒想到她都不說話
"妳在幹嘛？怎麼不說話？"我對著話筒說。
"我在點頭。""啊？"我不敢相信自己的耳朵。
"我在點頭！"她大聲叫。我甩掉電話，匆匆披上一件衣服，上了機車，衝去她們家按門鈴，當她開門的那一剎那，緊緊抱住她。
<葉子的離開，是因為風的追求，還是樹的不挽留。>

看完这故事，我 感同身受地哭了!!! :'(
等不到电话的我， 得不到回应的我， 是多么的难受。如果要我先开口结束又深感不舍，但是什么也不说更是无奈！答案其实很明显，只不过是我利用了你的不说清楚自己骗自己！ 从头到尾，从不知哪里出错，那么疼我的你竟变得如此的对待我。。或许，当我决定再一次相信爱情，相信你是真心的时后，我已经是个傻瓜了...